{"id":11711,"date":"2010-05-19T07:37:12","date_gmt":"2010-05-19T07:37:12","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2010-05-19T07:37:12","modified_gmt":"2010-05-19T07:37:12","slug":"town-fool-demands-restaurant-patron-admt-hes-gay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/2010\/05\/19\/town-fool-demands-restaurant-patron-admt-hes-gay\/","title":{"rendered":"Town Fool Demands Restaurant Patron Admt He&#8217;s Gay"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One of my worst memories of middle school is being in the cafeteria when someone came up and demanded that I say that I was gay. &nbsp;It was a horrible moment that will be seared in my memory forever.<\/p>\n<p>To my mind, there are two related reasons to out a public figure: candor and hypocrisy. &nbsp;Reksers is a perfect example. &nbsp;Rekers has spent his life denying that he&#8217;s gay while, at the same time, spewing dangerous rhetoric that has caused pain among countless gays and lesbians and likely has caused several several suicides of LGBT teens. &nbsp;Publicly exposing Rekers as gay is valid because it exposes the hypocrisy of his teachings.<\/p>\n<p>So what&#8217;s the reason to demand that Judge Walker come out? &nbsp;He&#8217;s never <\/p>\n<p>Petralis (along with a group of conservative religous extreemists) claim that Judge Walker has an obligation to declare his sexual orientation because he presides over the Prop 8 trial. &nbsp;That&#8217;s a dangerous argument. &nbsp;When Justice O&#8217;Connor wrote the majority opinion in the Casey case, did anyone demand to know if she ever had an abortion? &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p> demand that a judge who&#8217;s presiding over a maariage equality trial declare his sexuality, shouldn&#8217;t we demand that a judge presiding over a rape trial declare if she&#8217;s ever been molested? &nbsp;Or demand that a judge presiding over a case involving reproductive rights delcare if she&#8217;s ever had an abortion? &nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of my worst memories of middle school is being in the cafeteria when someone came up and demanded that I say that I was gay. &nbsp;It was a horrible moment that will be seared in my memory forever.<\/p>\n<p>To my mind, there are two related reasons to out a public figure: candor and hypocrisy. &nbsp;Reksers is a perfect example. &nbsp;Rekers has spent his life denying that he&#8217;s gay while, at the same time, spewing dangerous rhetoric that has caused pain among countless gays and lesbians and likely has caused several several suicides of LGBT teens. &nbsp;Publicly exposing Rekers as gay is valid because it exposes the hypocrisy of his teachings.<\/p>\n<p>So what&#8217;s the reason to demand that Judge Walker come out? &nbsp;He&#8217;s never <\/p>\n<p>Petralis (along with a group of conservative religous extreemists) claim that Judge Walker has an obligation to declare his sexual orientation because he presides over the Prop 8 trial. &nbsp;That&#8217;s a dangerous argument. &nbsp;When Justice O&#8217;Connor wrote the majority opinion in the Casey case, did anyone demand to know if she ever had an abortion? &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p> demand that a judge who&#8217;s presiding over a maariage equality trial declare his sexuality, shouldn&#8217;t we demand that a judge presiding over a rape trial declare if she&#8217;s ever been molested? &nbsp;Or demand that a judge presiding over a case involving reproductive rights delcare if she&#8217;s ever had an abortion? &nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6Pvhz-32T","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11711\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}