{"id":8513,"date":"2009-04-11T01:17:35","date_gmt":"2009-04-11T01:17:35","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2009-04-11T01:17:35","modified_gmt":"2009-04-11T01:17:35","slug":"this-isnt-just-about-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/2009\/04\/11\/this-isnt-just-about-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"This isn&#8217;t just about marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By now, most of us have seen the <a href=\"http:\/\/ca-ripple-effect.blogspot.com\/2009\/04\/this-isnt-just-about-marriage.html\"><font color=\"#990000\">despicable ad<\/font><\/a> unleashed in several key states this week in response to our two historic victories in Iowa and Vermont.<\/p>\n<p>It was commissioned by the National Organization for Marriage (but only if you&rsquo;re straight) whose website reveals some of their misleading tactics, <a href=\"diary\/10360\/more-from-nation-for-marriage-the-talking-points-revealed\"><font color=\"#0066cc\">thoroughly dissected on Pam&rsquo;s<\/font><\/a> this morning.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>What strikes me most is their desperation.&nbsp; Turning themselves into victims is the only weapon the anti-LGBT industry has left.&nbsp; Yes on 8&rsquo;s Frank Schubert himself has said that attacking LGBT folks directly doesn&rsquo;t work anymore.&nbsp; We can be thankful for that, but must we must learn to effectively respond with the truth to this new tactic.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>To succeed, opponents of the freedom to marry must convince moderates that loving, married same-sex couples somehow pose them a risk.&nbsp; They must stir up enough fear and doubt that otherwise fair-minded people will err on the side of discrimination.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>They claim this is not just about marriage.&nbsp; They&rsquo;re right.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>As their ad implies, they want to hurt LGBT people any which way they can.&nbsp; This is part of a much larger anti-LGBT agenda to dismantle existing rights. <\/p>\n<p>Tuesday, there will be a hearing on a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.eqca.org\/site\/apps\/nlnet\/content2.aspx?c=kuLRJ9MRKrH&amp;b=4869041&amp;ct=6852339\"><font color=\"#990000\">suit in federal court against SB 777<\/font><\/a>, a law sponsored by Equality California and authored by Senator Sheila Kuehl, requiring basic nondiscrimination protections for LGBT students in California public schools.&nbsp; EQCA has joined with other civil rights groups to fight this unfair attack on youth. This has nothing to do with &#8220;redefining marriage&#8221; but the usual suspects are all over it.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>It&rsquo;s easy to laugh at this ad with its hokey special effects and its saccharine melodramatics. One of the suggestions on its accompanying website was that people <a href=\"http:\/\/www.busttheblacklist.com\/site\/c.oiKZL6PGLpF\/b.4819609\/k.E964\/Patronize.htm\"><font color=\"#990000\">fight against marriage equality by eating at fast-food chain El Pollo Loco!<\/font><\/a>&nbsp; Yet they cry foul when Prop 8 opponents vote with their dollars. It&rsquo;s indeed easy to laugh, but these extremists are not to be dismissed.&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>The Yes on 8 campaign subjected the LGBT community to untold trauma, as we were forced to watch our neighbors and fellow Californians turn on us, stripping us of our rights and dignity.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Opponents of the freedom to marry say they don&rsquo;t want their children to learn about same-sex couples, yet they&rsquo;re spending millions of dollars to broadcast this garbage in homes all across the country.&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Likewise, ads like this one create a toxic environment, and send homophobic and transphobic messages to our nation&rsquo;s youth.&nbsp; In recent years we&rsquo;ve seen an <a href=\"http:\/\/joemygod.blogspot.com\/2008\/05\/anti-lgbt-hate-crimes-up-24.html\"><font color=\"#990000\">increase in anti-LGBT hate crimes<\/font><\/a>, and just yesterday we saw the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.masslive.com\/news\/index.ssf\/2009\/04\/mom_says_springfield_boy_11_wh.html\"><font color=\"#990000\">suicide by hanging of an eleven-year-old-boy<\/font><\/a> who had been relentlessly bullied and taunted at school&mdash;just because other students perceived him as gay.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This isn&rsquo;t just about marriage.&nbsp; This is about our very lives.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<strong>Geoff Kors<\/strong>, Equality California<\/p>\n<p><em>Reposted from the <a href=\"http:\/\/ca-ripple-effect.blogspot.com\/2009\/04\/this-isnt-just-about-marriage.html\"><font color=\"#990000\">California Ripple Effect<\/font><\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By now, most of us have seen the <a href=\"http:\/\/ca-ripple-effect.blogspot.com\/2009\/04\/this-isnt-just-about-marriage.html\"><font color=\"#990000\">despicable ad<\/font><\/a> unleashed in several key states this week in response to our two historic victories in Iowa and Vermont.<\/p>\n<p>It was commissioned by the National Organization for Marriage (but only if you&rsquo;re straight) whose website reveals some of their misleading tactics, <a href=\"diary\/10360\/more-from-nation-for-marriage-the-talking-points-revealed\"><font color=\"#0066cc\">thoroughly dissected on Pam&rsquo;s<\/font><\/a> this morning.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>What strikes me most is their desperation.&nbsp; Turning themselves into victims is the only weapon the anti-LGBT industry has left.&nbsp; Yes on 8&rsquo;s Frank Schubert himself has said that attacking LGBT folks directly doesn&rsquo;t work anymore.&nbsp; We can be thankful for that, but must we must learn to effectively respond with the truth to this new tactic.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>To succeed, opponents of the freedom to marry must convince moderates that loving, married same-sex couples somehow pose them a risk.&nbsp; They must stir up enough fear and doubt that otherwise fair-minded people will err on the side of discrimination.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>They claim this is not just about marriage.&nbsp; They&rsquo;re right.&nbsp; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2417,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1608],"tags":[7003,3694,4005,3760,741,558,7082],"class_list":["post-8513","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-1608","tag-7003","tag-3694","tag-4005","tag-3760","tag-741","tag-558","tag-7082"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6Pvhz-2dj","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8513","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2417"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8513"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8513\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8513"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8513"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calitics.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8513"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}