That Sen. Roy Ashburn was a closet case was one of the worst kept secrets around Sacramento. He would periodically appear in a gay bar, trying to be as discreet as a state senator can be in Sacramento. He’s not exactly a rock star or anything, but in a city built around state government, he’s pretty recognizable.
And so, on 2 occasions, somebody sent me an email saying that they had seen him at a gay bar. It had become more common over the last few years, as he was heading for his term limit and had no logical place to continue his political career. And, with his vote in support of a few minor tax increases in the California budget dispute last year, his chances of winning a Republican primary for dog catcher were also rapidly decreasing. Apparently, he became sloppy in his closet, either because he didn’t care anymore or because he thought he would never be caught. But, I’m no Mike Rogers, and I’ve never been all that great at the CYA work that’s necessary if you are going to start publishing that kind of stuff.
But, one sure way to get your name in lights? Get busted for DUI. And to make sure it is really exciting, bring along a guy that you picked up at the gay bar:
Sources tell CBS13 a state senator from Southern California was arrested for allegedly driving drunk after leaving Faces, a gay nightclub in midtown Sacramento, early Wednesday morning.
The California Highway Patrol pulled over Senator Roy Ashburn at 2:00 a.m. Wednesday after an officer noticed a black Chevy Tahoe swerving at 13th and L Streets.
When the officer stopped the state-issued vehicle, the driver identified himself as Senator Ashburn. He was arrested without incident and charged with two misdemeanors: driving under the influence and driving with a blood alcohol level higher than .08% or higher.
A male passenger, who was not identified as a lawmaker, was also in the car but was not detained. (CBS13)
Ashburn was quickly released (you can get the records by searching for Ashburn here), and probably thought he would just get to make the standard apologies.
I am deeply sorry for my actions and offer no excuse for my poor judgment. I accept complete responsibility for my conduct and am prepared to accept the consequences for what I did. I am also truly sorry for the impact this incident will have on those who support and trust me – my family, my constituents, my friends, and my colleagues in the Senate.
Of course, this was before the part about the gay club came out in the media. I guess you can now read the statement in a slightly different light.
If people choose to live in the closet, it’s their own poor choice. It will eventually drive them to do stupid things (like a DUI), and act like a jerk. But Ashburn is a slightly different case. Back when he still had campaigns to think about, he was something of an anti-marriage crusader:
In better days Ashburn, a fierce opponent of gay rights, was fighting marriage equality and organizing anti-gay marriage rallies as part of his “Traditional Family Values” campaign. (TalkingPointsMemo)
In fact, Ashburn’s efforts weren’t only focused on marriage equality. His little coalition actually wanted to ban domestic partnerships. The effort never really got anywhere; it wasn’t until In re Marriage Cases, the case that gave California marriage equality, became more of a threat that the move to ban marriage again really gained steam.
But Ashburn was there. Campaigning against gay rights in the day light while cruising for gay men after hours. You could make a lot of excuses for Ashburn, he was doing what you have to do to get elected in Bakersfield, or some other such nonsense, but he went out of his way to attack gay rights. And, that is often the case for these closet cases. They want to draw attention away from themselves, and so they go as far away politically as you can get from the LGBT community. They are scared of their own shadows.
Ultimately, it takes a little something extra to really go out on the limb against gay rights like Ashburn does. Yeah, some of these people trace it back to their deeply held faith views, but there are so many issues to take up from the Bible. The extreme poverty across the world would seem to be a far bigger issue, with far more and far more direct advice from the Bible. Yet, these people choose to focus on one misinterpreted section of Leviticus amongst a whole volume. In a sea of advice, commandments, and admonishments, they focus on one unclear passage. To spend so much time on one issue, there has to be something else to it than just one passage in the Bible.
The fight against homophobia won’t end anytime soon, but at least we can call it for what it is. Recognize those who are hypocritical, and stand up for our own rights. The fight will continue. But, as Martin Luther King, Jr, famously said, the arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice.
a bit more context:
– From “Remaining Awake Through a Great Revolution”, 31 March 1968
The 1.1 million signatures to put a measure to ban gay marriage before voters were collected way before In Re Marriage Cases was released on May 15th 2008.
It was merely bad timing on the part of the heterosexual supremacists that they couldn’t get money and attention to support the state constitutional ban on the ballot BEFORE the Supreme Court issued their ruling opening civil marriage
to same-sex couples.
Thus we got 173 days in which marriage equality was the law of the land (June 15-Nov 4 2008). In Hawaii, their State Supreme Court dithered and the constitution was amended prior to a final ruling. Hawaii STILL doesn’t have marriage equality.
It is not true that “everyone” in Sacramento knew about Ashburn’s glass closet, which is why the news of his arrest is making the rounds now.
Are there other members of the GOP caucus you would describe as having “glass closets”?
If “everyone knows” why not say who they are? It is not defamatory to say something which is true, and in California surely its not defamatory to call someone LGBT.
When I was in high school, there was a jock who was especially tough on gays. He was always ready with a slur and constantly looked to pick a fight with someone he thought was gay. Years later I found out that he was gay.
I have a huge stack of regrets left over from high school. Near the top of the list is not standing up for tormented gays. I cannot know what they went through, but I’m sure it was painful and can only hope that it made them stronger.
At the same time, I felt no glee at discovering the bully’s hypocracy. He must have had a cargo container full of demons himself. He didn’t need a tormetor because he was his own.
In thinking about Roy Ashburn and his role in Traditional Family Values I can only imagine the demons that have tormented him. Why waste empathy on bullies? Because empathy comes from a renewable resource.
As for Ashburn’s new familiarity with the criminal justice system that he devoted his career in building and nurturing? I hope he is prosecuted fully so that he comes to understand that a political career based on “good guys vs. bad buys” is one that leads to cheap votes and expensive realities.
What is it about these guys that other people condone their actions?
If people saw him in a gay bar, picking up on gay men, and knew he was toxic-ly anti-gay, why didn’t someone rat him out?
I don’t get it.
Resign now, We don’t want a Hypocrite in office.
I wonder if and how Ashburn will at when it comes to gay issues in the future.