( – promoted by Be_Devine)
Two months ago, when Del Martin died, we all lost a beacon of light and Phyllis Lyon lost her wife and companion of 56 years.
Upon Del's death, Phyllis said, “Ever since I met Del 55 years ago, I could never imagine a day would come when she wouldn’t be by my side. I am so lucky to have known her, loved her, and been her partner in all things. I also never imagined there would be a day that we would actually be able to get married. I am devastated, but I take some solace in knowing we were able to enjoy the ultimate rite of love and commitment before she passed.”
But that's not how those who support Prop 8 saw it. This is how they saw it, as captured by the amazing photographer Bill Wilson at Del Martin's memorial service at City Hall in San Francisco.
These people who hide behind the euphemism of “family values” protested Del's memorial with signs like “MOURN FOR YOUR SINS,” “DON'T WORSHIP THE DEAD,” and “YOU'RE GOING TO HELL.”
The public face of those who support Prop 8 is not their real face. This is who they are. Narrow minded, hateful bigots who interrupt a memorial service to tell an 83 year old widow that her wife is going to hell for having loved.
These are the people who want to tell Phyllis that she was never really married to Del. The ones who want to forcibly end my marriage to Brian. The ones who think they are wise enough to decide who other people can and can't love.
And just where do these people come from that have donated $4,499,258.05 from 10/27-10/30? It's not surprising that the vast, vast majority of the money donated to the Yes on 8 campaign is from out of state.Take a look at the donations from this week alone. Only a quarter of the donations to Yes on 8 came from California. The biggest chunk came from Utah. Texas had a sizable chunk as well. Take a look at the graph compiled my by lovely husband, Brian Leubitz.
We need to fight these out-of-state hatemongers with all of our power. Stop the lies! Stop the hatred! Walk, knock, call, e-mail, tell everyone you know that we need to protect our residents and our Constitution. NO ON 8!!!